“Edry, nak tanya boleh?” tegur seorang kawan sekolah rendah saya melalui Yahoo Messenger.
“Sila-sila”, balas saya.
“Tak guna ya puasa kalau tak tutup aurat?” soal kawan saya itu.
“Kalau kita lihat sudut sah atau tidak. Tutup aurat memang bukan syarat sah atau tak sah puasa”, saya cuba membantu.
“Cuma puasa tu mungkin kering pahalanya dan tak mendapat makna serta manfaat sebenar”, saya sekadar memberikan pandangan peribadi.
“Tu la, ada member aku ni. Dah lama aku perhatikan. Dia tak puasa”, ujarnya.
“Aku tanya dia kenapa. Dia cakap dia ada baca kat e-mail. Tak guna puasa kalau tak tutup aurat. Jadi lebih baik tak puasa terus”, dia menyambung cerita.
“Tak tutup aurat tu dah ingkar pada suruhan Pencipta. Tak puasa tu satu lagi keingkaran terhadap suruhan Pencipta. Kalau satu keingkaran tu sendiri memerlukan usaha untuk diperbaiki, mengapa nak tambah satu lagi? Secara positif, lebih baik satu kesilapan daripada dua”, saya cuba berkongsi apa yang terlintas di benak.
Kita tidak dungu untuk mempertikai mengapa pemandu dan penumpang kereta perlu memakai tali pinggang keselamatan. Atau mengapa perlu memandu mematuhi had laju tertentu. Kita tidak mempertikaikannya kerana kita tahu setiap undang-undang itu punya tujuan dan kebaikan tersendiri.
Tidak sepatutnya hanya kerana seseorang itu sering melakukan kesilapan memandu laju, lalu dia memilih untuk turut tidak memakai tali pinggang keselamatan. Kerana konon baginya tidak ada erti memakai tali pinggang keselamatan sekiranya masih gagal membuang tabiat buruknya memandu laju. Yang jelas dia hanya menambah kesalahan undang-undang yang dilakukan daripada satu kepada dua.
Walhal yang sepatutnya dilakukan adalah terus memakai tali pinggang keselamatan pada masa yang sama terus berusaha memperbaiki tabiat memandunya. Memakai tali pinggang keselamatan sepatutnya mengingatkannya bahawa dalam ia mematuhi satu undang-undang. Mengapa tidak cuba mematuhi secara menyeluruh.
Dalam ia cuba menjaga keselamatan diri sendiri ketika memandu. Mengapa tidak dia usahakan juga untuk menjaga keselamatan umum dengan mematuhi had laju. Meminimakan kesilapan itu tentu sekali lebih baik daripada menambah jumlah kesilapan
Begitu juga dengan hukum dan suruhan Pencipta. Adalah biasa bagi manusia yang lemah ini untuk melakukan kesilapan melanggar suruhanNya. Namun itu tidak sepatutnya dijadikan alasan untuk terus melakukan lebih banyak kesalahan.
Sepatutnya peringatan terhadap kebenaran diambil secara positif dan bukan sebaliknya. Sama halnya bagi kes puasa dan menutup aurat tadi. Bukan puasa itu yang perlu ditinggalkan sebaliknya kemahuan untuk mematuhi etika berpakaian yang ditetapkan Tuhan itu yang perlu dipertingkatkan.
Sebagai manusia, hamba Tuhan yang penuh kekurangan. Jangan melihat kita semata-mata dituntut sebaik mungkin memperbanyakkan ketaatan. Tetapi juga perlu cuba mengurangkan sebanyak mungkin keingkaran.
قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَى أَنْفُسِهِمْ لا تَقْنَطُوا مِنْ رَحْمَةِ اللهِ إِنَّ اللهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ
Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad): Wahai hamba-hambaKu yang telah melampaui batas terhadap diri mereka sendiri (dengan perbuatan-perbuatan maksiat), janganlah kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah, kerana sesungguhnya Allah mengampunkan segala dosa; sesungguhnya Dialah jua Yang Maha Pengampun, lagi Maha Mengasihani. [az-Zumar 39:53]
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6 September 2008 / 6 Ramadan 1429
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13 comments
Tu laaa....CM cukup sedih bila berkunjung ke Bazar Ramadhan di mana2 saja....silap2 hari bulan puasa kita pun "kurus" dibuatnya. Dari sudut pakaian...terkeluar sana sini, terbonjol sana sini....MasyaAllah. Bila tengok raut wajah anak2 gadis ni boleh kata kompemmm puasa tapi maap ler bila tgok cara berpakaian mmang mcm org tak puasa....Tak paham konsep kot...??
Yang pelik tuh ada plak yg hanya bersolat Terawih jer dalam bulan Ramadhan ni...solat fardhu yang lain tak buat...camner tuh, kompius, kompius.
Wallahua'lam, barangkali kerana ramai umat Islam hari ni 'menyembah' Ramadhan, bukan menyembah Allah SWT :)
Mungkin mereka masih belum memahami atau tak cuba untuk memahami. teringat pula waktu zaman budak2 sekolah dulu masa duk kat asrama, dah malas tak buat kerja sekolah, and then cakap dengan kawan "alang2 tak yah masuk kelas terus lah.." -_-
ni edry g-bugzz ye.. bagus bagus.. =)
Assalamualaikum.
You'll never know what goes on through their minds while they do it, or why they do it. Maybe they just don't see the connection. Or they haven't gotten their hidayah yet, who knows?
Revelation is important to me, though most people would say that this is not an excuse for them. that one should not wait for revelation to come before trying to change.
True. But I tried to change long ago, but there was a time when suddenly i see the connection, things i used to deem as okay, clothes i used to see as decent weren't so decent anymore.
Suddenly everything made sense.
I pray this connection will reach them in time. And all of us, insyAllah.
Wallahualam.
Wa'laikumsalam,
From your question in the comment give me sort of feelings like you're thinking that I am criticizing them harshly or judging those who don't understand.
I've been at the same level with them and at certain point or maybe worst. This entry is not to judge or to criticize but to educate. And the dialogue above is not between me and the person who is in the mistake. But with that person's friend. So this entry is my small effort to contributes to my blog readers in understanding the issue. It is not a hate towards any individual who are still in searching for God's grace, but a correction in the form of writing to educate.
Hope you can read all my post and understand my method in writings:)
Salaam
Oh my god, I didn't think that you were judging them or anything, i absolutely agree with how you answered the question.
Just giving my two cents. I know that Ed, I knew you since 2003. I remembered. Although I never remembered you being umm, at 'that' level, you were always the good guy, haha. But i understand.
You've elevated, alhamdulillah, and yes, i know what you mean.
Don't worry, I know you didn't mean to be judgmental, i know you well enough to know you're not that type, i dont even need to read your other posts to understand that.
Sorry if i sounded angry or insulted..I'm not.:)
Assalamualaikum.
Alhamdulillah, maybe I misinterpret the 'YOU' in the phrase "You'll never know what goes on through their minds while they do it". Well in the world without intonation or body language miscommunication usually happened. Yeah you've been knowing me for so long, impossible that you didn't know my style. Maybe I'm just too caution. My bad :)
By the way thank you for sharing your two cents. Do shares more :)
assalamualikum..
hi, ED is it? im sorry, u dont know me, but i happened to stumble upon ur blog while i was looking for an answer on the internet...my question was almost similar to that of the issue u were discussing here,which was about the ibadah of a fellow muslim/muslimah not being accepted by Allah, if he/she doesnt cover his/her aurat..is it true? bcoz my fren sed to me late dis evening, he sed dat my ibadah(s) are/is not accepted just bcoz i dont wear the hijab...im really confused, and i really hope u can help me here...i need closure...thank u so much in advance if u were to answer this question...assalamualaikum w.b.t
.confused.
Wa'laikumsalam,
All our friends were once unknown to us before. So it's ok :)
First of all, either your ibadah accepted or not. It is not for us human to decide. Allah SWT is the Lord who accepts and rejects the ibadahs of His slave.
But there are certain things which Allah SWT through the tongue of his messenger tell us that the person's ibadah will not be accepted. For example, prayer of a person will not be accepted for 40 nights. If that person met an individual who claimed to know the unseen (bomoh, pawang, fortune teller) and seek for his/her advice(about it the unseen). This can be refer to a hadith recorded in Sahih Muslim.
But for not wearing hijab, so far I haven't found any evidence saying Allah SWT would not accepts ibadahs of the person who are not wearing hijab. The person who said that need to bring the evidence and not to just simply speaks on behalf of Allah SWT.
Allah SWT will look upon our ibadah's effort as long we're still a Muslim. And as a Muslim, we should try our best to give total obedience and surrender to Allah SWT. May Allah SWT forgive our weaknesses.
Allah knows best. I hope my opinion helps you. Take care.
assalamualaikum w.b.t
thanx so much Ed..ur answer really helped me.. :)
may Allah bless u always..amin..keep up the good work~
wslm
Wa'laikumsalam,
Alhamdulillah...may Allah blessings and guidance be upon you too :)
tu ar psl rmje skang ni.kawe dok dlm bas pown skt mte tgk laki betine slambe dek wat solution.nk tgur xwat direct ar.perli2 sket pstu diorg dok diam ar.xsngup nk bior gtu je.da tu kte slaku sedare mare mreka yg Islam xkan amar makruf je.mne nahi mungkar nye??dlm quran pown catat amr makruf n nahi mungkar,mne de amr mkruf je!!
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